At whatever point in your divorce proceedings you decide to come to us, we are happy to provide legal advice and assist you.
In your first meeting with us, we will listen carefully to the particulars of your situation over a tea or coffee before laying out the next steps of the process, including any legal fees, in a clear and accessible way. It is our professional duty as a law firm to work towards your best interests so, if we believe you are approaching a matter from an angle that is disadvantageous to you, we will let you know. Depending on your circumstances, we may also speak with you about how professionals such as a financial advisor, family therapist or pensions expert could assist you through the divorce process.Contact us
For a divorce to be able to proceed in the United Kingdom, you must have been legally married for at least a year and you and/or your former partner must primarily reside, or be domiciled, in the UK. You or your spouse will be asked to give a statement that your marriage has broken down irretrievably.
An application to divorce can be made either jointly or as an individual. We can help you with this process or talk you through your options if you have received an Acknowledgement of Service document after your husband or wife has applied for a divorce. We can also guide you through the process of applying for a Conditional Order. This is a document declaring that the court sees no reason that you cannot finalise your divorce at a later stage.
As a part of the divorce process, it is important to reach an agreement with your spouse to maintain a positive relationship for the future - particularly over arrangements concerning money, property and your children. Some divorcing couples negotiate this themselves, sometimes even before the first application is made. If this is so, we can help you to formalise the agreement and make it legally binding. If not, we can supply advice and guidance as you and your former partner discuss these terms.
Agreements are often achieved through mediation but we can also help you to negotiate a settlement through collaborative practice and constructive negotiation. When no satisfactory agreement can be reached through other methods, court proceedings are occasionally required, although this should be treated as a last resort. If you do attend court, we will help you to prepare your case, find an excellent, trusted barrister and ensure that you have all the assistance necessary.
A minimum of 6 weeks after the date of your conditional order, you can apply for a final order. This will finalise your divorce and you will no longer be legally married. We suggest that you also address the financial aspects of your divorce before applying for the final order.
The entire process of divorce (excluding the financial agreement), takes a minimum of 6 months to complete. While some divorces are really that simple, some come with unforeseen roadblocks and difficulties. Whatever the case, we will be there by your side to support you and give you the advice you need to make the right choices for you and your family.
''Ros acted with compassion and sound advice as I navigated my way through my divorce. My ex-husband and I were keen to keep things as amicable as possible whilst completing the divorce as swiftly as we could. We achieved this through the advice and support of Ros who understood our situation and acted in the best way to achieve this. Our divorce concluded within 5 months and to this day my ex-husband and I remain good friends. I am very grateful to Ros for easing the way through a very difficult time.''
To ensure that assets are split fairly between parties, their value must first be evaluated. Assets can include property, savings, businesses, pensions and more. Since assets such as pensions can be worth more than they appear, an independent valuation may be required to assess their true value. At Harbour Family Law, we can advise you when your situation would benefit from contact with experts including pension actuaries and property surveyors to give you complete peace of mind that a fair deal has been reached.
Once an accurate valuation of the assets has been achieved, we can help you to negotiate a settlement. Doing this through round table meetings with your spouse and their solicitor can save time but it’s also possible to come to a financial agreement through correspondence.
For divorcing couples who are parents, coming to agreements around children can be extremely difficult and emotional. We can guide you through these negotiations and help you with all the challenging questions including contact hours, living arrangements and who will be involved in making big decisions in your child’s life.
We always strive to ensure that your child’s wellbeing is put at the front and centre of every agreement.
Mediation is an alternative resolution method to confrontational dispute. It is a process where divorcing parties meet with an unbiased mediator to discuss various settlements and agreements. The aim is to speak in a calm way where both spouse’s opinions are listened to and considered and, ultimately, to decide on a way forward together.
Except in particular circumstances such as domestic abuse or violence, divorcing couples must prove that they engaged with mediation before taking a dispute into court. For more information, take a look at our blog on mediation.
Public funding was unfortunately withdrawn from most aspects of family law in 2013. As a result, most clients will need to fund their legal fees privately. You may be able to apply to have certain costs covered if you are at risk of homelessness, a victim of domestic abuse or if you’re using the aid for the purpose of mediation. In some cases, you can also apply to have your spouse’s help with legal costs.
We understand that uncertainty around legal fees can be an upsetting aspect of your divorce. After our first consultation with you, we will be able to provide you with an overall estimate of your legal costs. Find out more on our Fees page.
The two processes are extremely similar, but there are a few minor differences between divorce and ending a civil partnership. Take a look at our information on the dissolution of civil partnerships for more information.
The average cost of a divorce in the UK is £14,561, including lifestyle expenses. However, this can vary widely. Divorces including court proceedings often cost significantly more than those settled out of court, for example.
The minimum length of a UK divorce is 26 weeks (approx. 6 months) as it includes an obligatory “cooling off” period. When divorces take a significantly longer time than this to complete, it is often due to the time taken to make a financial or child arrangement agreement. Find out more on our blog.
It’s thought that around 40% of marriages in the UK end in divorce. However, this varies between opposite and same sex marriages, as well as second marriages. Read our blog on divorce statistics to find out more.
First you need to check you are able to apply, then you can fill in the online application form for divorce, along with submitting the legal fees.
Much of the legal aid available for family law cases has been withdrawn as of 2013, but you may be entitled to financial help for certain parts of the process if you have been a victim of domestic abuse or meet other criteria. In the case of a divorce, you may also be able to make a “legal services order” to compel your spouse to make provision for your legal costs. Find out more about legal fees and what we offer here.
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